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Long distance break up after almost 3 years of dating and I don’t know what to do with myself

Long distance break up after almost 3 years of dating and I don’t know what to do with myself

Jagulario89

What does it even mean to "live life to the fullest"? What makes you think what you guys had wasn't filling his cup as it was?


EllieGoosey

If we both had busy weeks where we saw each-other less because of school or jobs, he would actively turn down seeing his friends so he could see me but It got to the point where I felt like he was barely spending time with any of his friends as life got busier and busier. I know he’s an adult who made that choice himself but I felt like he was missing out on opportunities to go out and do things when instead he would just spend all his free time sitting on his computer so we could face time which I appreciated but it made me feel guilty


Jagulario89

Was he in any way showing signs of making you feel guilty about spending time with you? Otherwise, you shouldn't really push people away for prioritizing you over there friends. That is kind of the point of a partner.


EllieGoosey

I agree with you but it was getting to the point where he was just spending all his free time sat at a computer in his room. And with online classes he would go from classes on his computer to homework on his computer to talking to me from his computer. I know I’m not his mother or anything but I felt like it wasn’t very healthy. I felt like I was stopping him from experiencing life in a way we would be able to do together if the relationship was in person instead of long distance. And it has been over a year since we’ve been able to travel to meet eachother in person